Graysexual Pride Flag

Graysexuals feel somewhere between asexual (not interested in sex) and sexual (interested in sex). This is a deliberately vague term, for people who don’t want to be defined too narrowly.

The flag, also known as the Gray-A or Gray-ace Flag uses similar colors to the asexual and demisexual flags. Just like them, purple means community, grey for graysexuality and white for non-asexual friends and partners.

Tris Reid-Smith/GSN

What Does It Mean to Be Graysexual?

Being graysexual means experiencing sexual attraction occasionally or under specific, rare conditions. Graysexual individuals exist on the asexual spectrum, where they may feel sexual attraction infrequently, only in certain contexts, or to a lesser degree than those who identify as allosexual. This identity acknowledges the nuanced and varied ways people experience sexual attraction.